Hollywood’s
favorite family is probably the Will Smith family. Will Smith is an
actor and singer, wife Jada Pinkett is an actress, son also and actor
and singer and finally daugther a singer. Wow, that’s a hand full.
Well,
it seems Jada Pinkett has been trained well in the relationshit matters
by her husband Will Smith who once starred as a relationship expert in
the movie “Hitch.”
Read below what Jada Pinkett posted on her Facebook page:Should
I stay with a mate after she or he has cheated on me? (This is not
referring to habitual cheaters. That is a different matter.)
This
is a very personal choice, and there is no right or wrong answer. If
your partner is remorseful and is willing to work it out, I would
suggest trying to look at it from this vantage point. My observation has
been that when most people cheat, they are trying to solve a problem.
They are usually in some kind of emotional trouble or confusion that
they believed the cheating would relieve. What’s
interesting is that most of the time the cheating has nothing to do with
YOU. Now the question becomes, are you willing to put all ego aside and
reach for some deep compassion to try to figure out what the trouble
is, and, as partners, try to solve it? Know this, if someone has cheated
on you who truly loves you, they have hurt themselves as much as they
have hurt you. This makes for a great opportunity to deepen the
relationship with thorough honesty, which creates deeper respect with
some serious setting of boundaries. This is also when love gets real and
true and illuminates what you are made of as a couple and as
individuals. Situations like these could be the windows to a deeper
commitment OR… to two separate paths on the way to look for new
partners. Only the unique nature of your specific relationship can be
the telling factor.
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